How long do you take?

Another question to you all: when there are two or more of you, is it a joint decision what's for dinner, or a benevolent dictatorship?  Here I try to involve P but all he says is 'I'll enjoy anything you give me darling'

Often it’s a joint decision. Sometimes he gets what he’s given (like this evening   ). Sometimes he chooses. We both do something towards the cooking usually. One doing the prep one cooking. But there’s only ever one that does any cleaning of the kitchen. No not Bob