2022 - What I did today

Proserpina, sounds like your gran had a good life, living in her own house till the end and keeping her mental faculties. Most people would wish for that.
I agree with your mum and Veggie that plants can have a special meaning. I have an orchid that belonged to mum that has nearly dies a couple of times but flowered really well this year and has 2 offsets I will pot up when I have a bit of time.