Grower & Cook?

Way back in the day a long long time ago I had an auntie with a gentleman friend. Said gentleman strayed and started playing away. Auntie found out. Found a cabbage from the garden infested with caterpillars, cooked it ( including caterpillars) covered it in white sauce and served it up to him. Told him after! The story goes she also took a pin to his condoms!